Mothers, Fashion, and the Legacy of Confidence

We all come from a mother. Whether she was just the vessel that got us here or the nurturing presence that shaped us, we all have that connection. And as I step deeper into motherhood myself, I’m seeing it from a whole new perspective.

Being a new mom, I now understand the weight of what mothers do—holding it all together, pouring into their families, and still showing up as themselves. Even without a traditional 9-to-5, being a stay-at-home mom has shown me just how much goes into making a household run. And now, I see my own mother in a different light.

My mom? She did it all—and she did it fly. I remember growing up, watching her put on her outfits with such intention, not for anyone else but for herself. Even now, with a job where she sits in an office all day, she still steps out looking effortlessly chic. A houndstooth two-piece set, a sleek pair of slingbacks, the right accessories—subtle, but still fly. I’ll tell her, “Mommy, take a picture and post it somewhere. People need to see this!” But she doesn’t need validation. She knows she’s that girl.

And that’s what fashion wellness is truly about—not dressing for others, but for yourself. It’s not about the trends, the audience, or being seen. It’s about feeling good, moving with confidence, and honoring who you are—something my mother has mastered.

Now, as I embrace this phase of my life, I realize I’m not dressing to be “seen” anymore either. I am that girl. I put on clothes for me. I enjoy it. And I know now that style isn’t just about what you wear—it’s about how you carry yourself, how you show up, and the energy you bring into a room. My mom taught me that, not with words, but by simply being herself.

So this Mother’s Day, I want to say cheers to all the moms who do it all, who show up every day, who pour into their families, and who still make space for themselves. And a special Happy Mother’s Day to my mom, Starr, who taught me everything about style, confidence, and self-love.

She doesn’t need an audience to affirm her. She is that girl, regardless. And I can only hope to walk in that same confidence and grace.

Love you, Mommy. This one’s for you Starr.Mothers, Fashion, and the Legacy of Confidence